You've probably heard all the typical dating advice—hit the gym, dress better, make more money...

Yet thousands of average guys are dating amazing women without any of that.

The things that actually make you magnetic to women are so unexpected, they'll seem wrong at first—until you see the proof.

So that's why in this video I'm going to reveal to you the 5 secrets to becoming truly irresistible to women.

Section 1: Authentic Vulnerability as Your Secret Weapon

Alright gents, let me ask you something - when was the last time you actually connected with a woman on a real level?

I'm not talking about that surface-level small talk at the bar. I'm talking about the kind of connection that makes her think about you long after you've left.

Most guys are out there flexing their muscles, flashing their watches, trying to look perfect.

But that's exactly what's killing your game. Women have an insane ability to detect fake confidence.

What actually works? Being real and vulnerable.

Now, I know what you're thinking. "Jose, being vulnerable? That's weak." But listen up - there's a massive difference between being weak and being real

For example, last month, I was on a date at this French restaurant. And instead of pretending to be some wine expert, I straight up told her, "You know what? I can barely pronounce half of this menu."

She laughed, started teaching me about wines, and what could've been an awkward moment turned into the best part of our night.

That's the power of authentic vulnerability. It's not about being weak - it's about being confident enough to be real, even if others might disapprove.

So next time you're with a girl, drop the act. Maybe you're actually nervous about the date. Maybe you're not an expert at something. Tell her about it. Keep it light, but keep it real.

Section 2: The Nuanced Art of Self-Deprecating Humor

Now that you understand the power of being real, let me show you how to take it to the next level - because there's an art to making vulnerability actually sexy, and it starts with knowing how to laugh at yourself

Self-deprecating humor isn't just about telling jokes. It's a powerful tool that can instantly break down walls between you and the woman you're interested in. But it only works when you're already coming from a place of genuine confidence.

Let me tell you what most guys get wrong. Self-deprecating humor is like a double-edged knife. They either go too hard with the jokes, coming off as insecure, or they're too afraid to use them at all.

The key is to show that you're confident enough to laugh at yourself without seeming like you're fishing for compliments or hiding deep insecurities.