These 7 flirting techniques will make women want you instantly. But here’s the catch: If you’re still making the same mistakes 95% of men make, you’ll lose her—before you even get a chance. Stick around, and I’ll show you how to flip the script—and become the guy she get addicted to and can’t stop thinking about.

I used to be that guy—paralyzed by rejection, watching other men effortlessly connect with women I liked. After years of failing (and obsessively studying what actually works), I discovered one truth that changed everything. Most men fail at flirting because they’re too obvious. They dump all their intentions upfront—and kill the mystery. But mystery is everything. When was the last time something predictable truly captivated you? Attraction thrives on ambiguity. It’s not about spelling things out—it’s about making her wonder. That emotional gap? It’s what pulls her in—often harder than anything you could say outright. These 7 techniques are built around exactly that. Not tricks. Not manipulation. Just raw psychology—and how real attraction actually works. Understand these, and you’ll never look at dating the same way again.

Let’s start with the first technique that flips the script completely.

P1:  Frame control and Role Reversal

Most men approach women with the energy of "I want something from you", making the woman feel like the prize is being pursued.

But what if you flipped this dynamic completely?

Attractive women are used to being chased - they have countless men pursuing them daily.

When you subtly position yourself as the prize instead, it creates an immediate pattern interrupt in her mind.

For example:

If she mentions her apartment, say: "Are you already trying to get me to your place? I get it, but at least buy me dinner first."

Or when inviting her back to your place, add: "But only if you promise not to try anything."

This accomplishes two things: it creates sexual tension through implication rather than direct statements, and it positions you as the prize.

This refreshing role reversal instantly intrigues you, more than 95% of the men she meets. I

Instead of being another guy trying to win her over, you're framing her as just another woman trying to win you over.

Remember - this only works with a playful smile and confident energy. The delivery must communicate that you're having fun with the interaction.

And this technique works perfectly well with the next one

P3: Dynamic Flirting