These 7 Alpha Mindsets will make women crazy about you – and make them chase after you. Most men fail with women, end up in the friend zone or are taken advantage of – because they don't have these mindsets. When you internalize them, women will desire you, respect you and can't get you out of their minds. And best of all? You don't need a model's face or a fat bank account.


But first, let me tell you something about confidence that most men completely misunderstand.

Confidence that draws women to you isn't about what you say or how you look—it's about what's happening inside your head. Women can sense it before you've even said a word.

Think of confidence like an iceberg. What people see—your words, actions, and body language—is just the visible part. What truly matters is beneath: your mindset, beliefs about yourself, and how you view the world.

Most guys focus on appearing confident through pickup lines, expensive clothes, or pretending to be something they're not. But women detect this fake confidence, and it feels hollow and unattractive.

True inner confidence comes from developing powerful mindsets that change how you experience the world. I'm sharing 7 alpha mindsets that will transform how women respond to you—not tricks, but fundamental shifts in your thinking.


P1: You’re unattached to outcomes.

The first mindset that drives women crazy about you is being completely unattached to outcomes.

This doesn't mean you don't care - it means you're not emotionally dependent on specific results.

Think of it like a chef who prepares an amazing meal.

He puts all his skill and passion into creating something fantastic, but once the plate leaves his kitchen, the outcome is out of his control.

Because individual tastes vary, and a customer might not love the dish.

But that doesn’t mean he sucks.

It’s the same for talking to a woman, because most guys are desperately hoping for her attention.

This neediness creates an invisible pressure that women can feel instantly.

Instead, adopt the mindset that you're completely okay no matter what happens.

You approach a woman without the desperate need for a specific outcome.

If it works out, great and if it doesn't, you learn a lesson.